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Being a Second Wife:… Is it worth it? (Tito’s Thoughts)

Bolatito Adebayo

By now you must have heard about the unfortunate demise of Yul and May Edochie’s first son.

The fifteen-year-old son of the popular actor who went to play football with friends had a seizure and died soon after he was rushed to the hospital.

May God console and strengthen both parents during these trying times, most especially May his mother. Amen.

No one should go through this kind of pain and I hope the parents and siblings of this young boy are comforted too.

In the middle of this grief is the second wife of Yul Edochie, Judy.

Unfortunately she has been caught up in another season of cyberbullying.

A significant number of May sympathizers are accusing Judy of having a hand in the death of the boy.

There are so many comments insinuating and unjustly accusing her of the evil stepmother deeds.

It is unfortunate that many Nigerians still believe in the wicked stepmother narrative.

On Judy’s page it has been crazy, on different blogs there are vile comments and it has been a messy day for Judy since the story went viral.

These vile remarks can send anyone into depression.

Judy’s life has been a hell of a mess since Yul Edochie announced he was taking her as his second wife and May sympathizers have accused her of wrecking a beautiful home and as though, that is not enough now they are pointing fingers at her again.

I can confidently say that Judy has not been happy since she stepped into this marriage. A lot of people think she doesn’t deserve to be happy.

Unfortunately, for her, Gistlover revealed that she just had another baby girl for Yul.

Online inlaws are agitated, another baby while the first son of the household is in cold hands of death?

Online inlaws aren’t having it.

Also, Gistlover reported that May lost goods worth millions of naira to thieves who stole from her shop recently; sure this isn’t looking good on Judy.

All these unnerving news triggered the online inlaws more and it’s been hell for Judy.

Is being a second wife worth all these unfounded accusations?

Is being a second wife worth losing your peace of mind?

Is being a second wife worth all the bickering and hate?

Well, if this is what being a second wife is….

Then it is frightening and is not worth it at all.

Since all these episodes began, Judy has been treated like an intruder, competitor and an enemy.

I don’t know what goes on in the Edochie family but from my observation online, it’s been hell.

Why will anyone want to live like that?

Isn’t this outpour of hate enough to kill whatever feelings Judy has for Yul?

Is this step she has taken not filled with regrets already?

Isn’t peace of mind better than being treated like an intruder ?

And this isn’t going to stop soon, in fact it may affect her kids too.

Will this never ending cycle of drama, conflicts, competition and hate a reward for being a second wife?

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