By Bolatito Adebayo
Just in case you are wondering where this is coming from or what sort of question is this, the reason is that Popular Nigerian celebrity stylist known as Medlin Boss, Mimi Linda Yina has been accused of ruining her best friend’s marriage and alleged affair has numerous leaked romantic chats online.
The socialite has been trending for days online in Nigeria for a role in the affair with Nimi Nwafor’s husband.
The marriage of Nimi Nwafor and her husband who are blessed with five children was a happy one until Mimi came into the picture. Gistlover, a popular controversial anonymous blogger, leaked all these screenshots on her blog.
Sadly, this is not the first time we are hearing such stories and it won’t be the last. Best friends and husbands are the people you should trust and their loyalty to you should be top niche. These two people should be your shoulder in which you cry on, the ones who should be with you through turbulent times. So, having these people conspire to stab you in the back, the betrayal hits differently.
Nevertheless here are indicators to show you that your spouse and husband are smashing each other.
Number one indicator as a married woman is that your husband’s sexual appetite changes. As a married woman, you should know the sexual patterns of your husband. If you notice that he is no longer touching you or he is hardly in the mood for sex, he is probably getting it somewhere and it might be from bestie.
Oftentimes, guilt cannot be concealed but the problem is that we are not very sensitive. When the three of you are together, your husband and bestie become uncomfortable. If your bestie suddenly becomes taciturn when your husband is around or your husband begins to behave awkwardly when your bestie is near, be suspicious.
Also, you will notice that your husband and best friend rarely have time for you. They will be playing the busy card and trying to steal time to be together. Oftentimes, they are always on their phones and if they used to give you access to their phones, they won’t allow it again.
More so, they are always paying attention to their appearances. You will discover that your husband who rarely pays attention to his appearances is now particular about details, same as your friend.
Some of these betrayals have mastered the art of manipulation that they will try to cause a rift between you and your husband.
Your best friend may bad mouth your husband or your husband is talking down about your best friend. That may just be a façade to take your attention away from what is happening.
It might seem to you this situation is impossible but listen, there is nothing absolutely impossible in this world and people can be treacherous, so watch your back.
